Imago
Relationship Therapy is the name given to an effective
way of working with couples created by Harville Hendrix, PhD.
Dr. Hendrix wrote the best-selling book Getting The Love You
Want – A Guide For Couples, as well as other books. He
has been a featured guest on the Oprah Winfrey Show, demonstrating
the effective techniques and bringing live testimonies of couples.
David
was in the last training group of practitioners to be certified
by Dr. Hendrix himself in New York City. He has been using the Imago
system along with his other skills for 10 years.
IMAGO
is from the Latin word for image. It refers to the inner
image we form in childhood of the character traits of our ideal
mate. Much of this is in our unconscious and we are not
aware of it when we go about selecting a mate. That is why we usually
pick someone with whom, on the surface at least, we are often incompatible!
But
there is always a greater wisdom in our choice of a mate! While
our ego wants to feel good and be happy in relationship, the Soul
has a whole different agenda!... and that agenda is about healing
and becoming more whole. This requires moving from unconsciousness,
through the normal power struggles of committed relationship, to
the awareness of who we are. Then we can extend ourselves for the
purpose of nurturing our partner’s personal and spiritual
growth. This is conscious loving!
The
process of IMAGO helps couples achieve this
goal!
David
has had the experience of bringing couples back from the brink of
divorce using this methodology. He can provide references.
Also,
check the Imago website www.ImagoRelationships.org. |